HEXAGRAM 8 

INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

KEY WORD:  COMMITMENT

MESSAGE:    HAVING THE RIGHT QUALIFICATIONS

 

MAIN COMMENTARY 

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Hexagram 8 is about seeking a close union or mutually beneficial partnership in business or politics. The image shows two people sitting together with the same desire to create a close bond. Ask the oracle again to get a deeper reading. Ask whether there is the right qualifications to maintain a close union. Is there perseverance? Is there consistency? Are we ideal for each other? If someone doesn't have these qualifications it's better you do not attempt it all. If someone hesitates too long to join the union it's best you let them go. 

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It's auspicious to have a relationship when both parties are kindhearted and sincere as well as consistent and trustworthy. Those who are not steadfast in their commitment and hesitate to unite or come too late face misfortune and are cut off. They will fail if the right time is missed to establish an intimate relationship. In order for it to be successful, you must be farsighted and be able to foresee the future of the relationship and the signs from the start. People who hesitate or are uncertain should not be accepted. 

 

In the work environment it is to your best interests to deal kindly with employees and cultivate close relations because through cooperation between staff and upper management further growth is achieved. Those who do not have the right qualifications to become group members should be left out.

 

HEXAGRAM 8

INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

 

LINES ANALYSIS

 

LINE 1

At the beginning we enter as newcomers without credentials. Both need to build credit through sincerity and trust over time before a close bond can be achieved. Approach people with sincerity and trust and they will respond the same. 

 

LINE 2

Close bonds should be created freely and from the heart without losing our individuality.

 

LINE 3

Show good judgement when selecting a partner. You are seeking a relationship with the wrong person and putting yourself at the risk of getting hurt. 

 

LINE 4

Even though this person is a stranger they have the right qualifications. They are virtuous sincere and trustworthy. It's to your advantage to persist in maintaining a close bond. It's a lucky one. 

 

LINE 5

The analogy of a king is given who is out hunting by closing off three directions while leaving one direction free for the prey to have a chance to escape. Don't stop someone from leaving, if they want to leave let them go freely and hold on to those who want to form close bonds with you. Don't force someone to be with you. 

 

LINE 6

Not only is it important to act at the right time but you must also be in the right frame of mind to form a close bond. No one has the mental or emotional aptitude to lead and hold it together and so the right time has been lost.